MR. WRONG (CONTINUED)

Just because we had so much fun writing our last list, 5 Guys You Should Never Date, we wanted to hit you with another list. Your welcome! Here are 4 More Guys You Should Never Date.

1. Mr. Jokes-On-You

"Babe, I was just kidding. I'm sorry you took it the wrong way."

The Mr. Jokes-On-You is easy to date because he's funny... at first. He gets your humor and you get his, however, it doesn't take long before you become the but of his jokes. He oftentimes tells you to loosen up, or to not take their jokes so seriously. Listen:

In a relationship, jokes at the expense of someone you care about are called attacks.

No one likes to be made fun of. Especially because relationships are about building trust and support. Anything that does the reverse is only working against your connection. This doesn't mean you can't joke around, that would be ridiculous. Instead, take time to discover what you both enjoy. Try watching a funny movie together or going to a local comedy club. In time, shared experiences will begin to transform the things you laugh about.

2. Mr. "Right"

"I see what you're saying, but..."

The problem here isn't when he's right. It's the attitude he carries because he's decided to become the answer to all of life's problems. It's amazing how much animosity is created in a relationship when someone decides your need for understanding is less important than their need to be right. You can't argue with Mr. "Right", and if he's been at it for a long time then...

he definitely knows how to keep his composure...

while making you look like the "emotional/out-of-control" one. It's okay, we feel you. The best way to avoid Mr. "Right" is to look for social cues early on. See how he interacts with people he's not in a close-relationship with. Watch his communication style, and ask yourself some of these questions: "Is he simply hearing or trying to understand?", "Does he ignore someone in middle of a conversation (especially if that person might potentially be wrong)?", "Does he always have the last word?", and "Does he consider 'dumb people' an actual people group?"

3. Mr. Insecurities

"Tell me honestly, do you think he's better looking than me?"

From the simple yet profound words of Mrs. Brown, "Ain't nobody got time for that!" If a man doesn't believe he has something good to offer, then he needs to work that out. That is not your responsibility, otherwise you will become his source of confidence. It may sound nice at first, but give it some time and you'll find out...

it's not worth it!

This goes back to the two powerful people spiel I mentioned earlier in 5 Guys You Should Never Date. Just to clarify, it takes two powerful people to establish a healthy relationship, not to simply create one. Anyone can start a relationship and have it look healthy for the first few weeks. What I mean is: two people who know who they are and are comfortable with themselves, know their needs and when not to overindulge, are responsible, and can pretty much lead normal lives by themselves.

The beauty of finding someone who is powerful, is that even though they can reasonably manage their own life, they are extremely confident in the fact that they have chosen to share it with you.

4. Mr. 'Fraidy Cat

"Why should we get married? It's just a dumb piece of paper anyways."

Isn't the purpose of all this dating to finally find someone to spend the rest of your life with? Marriage isn't just some dumb piece of paper, or even some whimsical happy ending to your relationship problems. It's hard work! It literally means, "You can't leave or I take half of whatever your worth." A lot of times, the problem isn't finding a man who will pop the question, it's finding the balance between freedom and pressure during your dating phase.

To avoid someone who's naturally afraid of commitment, try establishing marriage as one of your goals early on in the relationship. Sometimes it's best to wait until you feel your relational intimacy deepening, and other times it's best when you just can't keep your hands off each other.

Commitment on a superficial level means no one else gets to have you.

But don't settle for just that. Challenge yourself to find out what commitment really means to you personally. Pray about it, and when you think you have the answer bring someone else into your process.

If you have any of your own dating advice, tips, or dilemmas, then feel free to leave a comment below. Our team would love to give you some feedback.